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Position of Intimate Relationship between Husband and Wife According to Islam

POSITION OF HUSBAND INTIM RELATIONSHIPS – In Islam, husbands and wives may carry out various styles / positions when having sex as long as they go to the right “place”. Allah SWT said in Surah Al Baqarah verse 223 which reads:

“Your wives are (like) the land where you cultivate, so go to the land where you grow your crops as you wish” (Surat al-Baqarah: 223)

Once upon a time Umar bin Khattab was worried and complained to the Prophet. Umar bin Khattab complained that he had just come to see his wife from behind. At that time the Messenger of Allah was only silent until Allah SWT revealed the verse 223 of Al-Baqarah.

Imam Nawawi explained that in the verse it is permissible to fuck his wife from the front and back, with his face down or overtaking. It is not permissible to fuck your wife through the rectum because it is not a location for farming.

Position of Intimate Relationship between Husband and Wife According to the Best Islam

Then what is the best position of husband and wife relationship according to Islam?

In Zaadul Ma’ad, Ibn Qayyim Al Jauziyah explained that the best position is that the husband is above the wife.

According to Ibnul Qayyim Al Jauziyah, the position shows the husband’s leadership towards his wife. As the word of God in verse 34 verse An-Nisa that reads

“Men are leaders for women” (QS. An Nisa ‘: 34)

and also in Surat Al-Baqarah verse 187

“They are clothes for you, and you are clothes for them” (QS. Al Baqarah: 187)

How Many Times Does the Intimate Relationship According to Islam?

In Islam, there is no limit to the number of times a week a husband and wife have to have intercourse. So, in this case a person can do it any time according to his circumstances and ability.

As said by Ibn Qudamah in Al Mughni (7: 30),

“Sexual relations must be carried out by the husband, that is, he has the obligation to fuck his wife as long as there is no udzur. As stated by Imam Malik. “

There is also a hadith from ‘Abdullah bin‘ Amr bin Al ‘Ash, he said that Rasullah sallallaahu‘ alaihi wa sallam advised him,

“O Abdullah, can I get news from you that you are constantly fasting and also praying at night?” Abdullah bin Amr bin Al Ash replied, “Yes, O Messenger of Allah.” He said, “Don’t do it like that. You may fast, but there is time not to fast. You may pray at night, but there is a time to sleep. Remember, your body has the right, your eyes have rights, your wife also has the right that you must fulfill. Likewise your throat has rights. “(Narrated by Bukhari no. 1975).

Ibn Hajar also said,

  “The scholars clash with each other, may the husband leave behind intercourse with his wife. Imam Malik was of the view, “If it doesn’t make an emergency, the husband can be forced to have sex or they both must be separated.” Imam Ahmad also argued that way. While the famous among the Syafi’iyah scholars, he is not obliged to have sex. Some are of the view that it is mandatory. Some Salaf scholars argue, every four nights, there must be sex. Other scholars view, every time sacred from menstruation, once sex. “(Idem)

If the husband travels or travels with the stated purpose or for other reasons that are permissible, then he should not leave his wife too long.

Adab in Doing Married Relationships in Islam

Husband and wife relations in Islam have aesthetic and ethical aspects that aim to provide physical satisfaction and soul pleasure. Here he is adab in making husband and wife relations in Islam.

1. Doing Foreplay
A husband should start a husband and wife relationship by joking, hugging and kissing his wife. There is a hadith which explains that there is a great reward for a husband who associates his wife well

“Whoever holds the wife’s hand while seducing him, then Allah SWT, will write for him 1 kindness and merge 1 ugliness and raise 1 degree, When embracing, then Allah Swt, will write for him 10 goodness melts 10 ugliness and raises 10 degrees, When kissing, then Allah Swt, will write for him 20 goodness, merge 20 ugliness and lift 20 degrees, When intercourse with it, then it is better than the world and its contents “

Foreplay or can be called heating aims to create a positive communication between husband and wife. With sufficient and correct heating, the husband and wife relationship will be more pleasant and satisfying.

2. Decorate yourself
Husbands should clean their mouths so as not to cause unpleasant odors. A fragrant mouth will make a wife like love. Likewise the wives are required to decorate beautifying themselves and using perfume when they will meet her husband.

The Prophet Muhammad said

“The best woman is a woman who smells good and tastes good.”

3. No Round Bare
In making a relationship husband and wife should not be naked. The Prophet Muhammad said

“If you engage in sexual intercourse with his wife, then do not be naked like his naked himar.”

4. Perform Sunnah Prayers 2 Rakaat Previously
It is recommended to perform 2 rak’ah sunnah prayers before having a husband and wife relationship to get the mercy of Allah SWT and avoid the temptations of Satan.

5. Do Prayer Before
In addition to performing 2 rak’ah sunnah prayers, couples are also expected to read prayers so that they are kept away from shetan. The reading is as follows
بِسْمِ اللَّهِ اللَّهُمَّ جَنِّبْنِى الشَّيْطَانَ وَجَنِّبِ الشَّيْطَانَ مَا رَزَقْتَنَا

BISMILLAH ALLAHUMMA JANNIBNIS SYAITHAN WA JANNIBIS SYAITHAN MA RAZAQTANA

Meaning:
By chanting the name of Allah, O God, keep the shirk from me, and keep it away from what you will bless us (children, offspring).

6. Don’t Connect When Your Wife Is Menstrual
In Islam, it is not permissible to make marital relations when the wife is menstruating even though some doctors say that having a relationship during menstruation.

It is prioritized to pay attention to aesthetic and ethical aspects when dealing with husband and wife by not forgetting the sensory aspects of the position in relationships and other techniques.

The right relationship between a husband and wife is a worship that will get a price from Allah SWT while an intimate relationship that is not true will get sin.

That was the position of the relationship between husband and wife according to true Islam and adab-adab in doing it. Hopefully useful for you.

Position #9 Increases to Position #3 This Way – The Hidden Relevance

The Hidden Relevance, if you look at it from the title, you might imagine that this is a secret technique or a hidden way to do SEO, but in fact it’s not what you imagine. I named it Hidden because it will not be visible to visitors when you optimize using this method. Can it be like that? isn’t it dangerous?

I will explain later, before I want to explain first about relevance. All search engines must use this factor in the algorithm, because they want what appears in the search results, just like what the searcher typed in the search box. Because it will be very disturbing if what we type in the search engine results are not in accordance with what is displayed by search engines.

Relevance can be interpreted as a relationship that has the same meaning. Usually we definitely apply this in the content. The most visible implementation of relevance is the title of the article and the content of the article that is definitely related, for example if in the title we discuss “how to get rid of zits” then the content should discuss “how to get rid of zits”.

Most bloggers are only fixated on Title tags, meta descriptions, and content in applying this relevance. But actually Google always says that the relevance in Google Patents is Document. So that not only content that affects relevance but all documents in a web. This is where most bloggers begin to apply relevance between documents (content), usually by applying SILO Architecture and Internal links in content to connect to other related articles (Related Links).

Silo and internal links will be visually visible in the content, but there is one more way to make relevance between content, but its position is not visible in the article because we use the “rel = next” Element link and “prev = rail”. Visually it will not be visible because for this link element the position in the code is the same as the Meta Tag.

You may be familiar with this Link element, there are so many themes or blogspot templates that use these features. But unfortunately most use it not optimally because “rel = next” and “rel = prev” are link elements used for paginated content (serial content), which means that Google will see the content as 1 serial content but each or each URL Content will remain indexed perfectly by Google in search engines, in contrast to “rel = canonical”. Maybe this is also the reason why most webmasters only use it on the same homepage as the example above.

This is not a problem, but when the web that you create is a niche general, then using “rel = next” and “rel = prev” in the themes will not be optimal because you can connect between irrelevant content. For this reason, I try to take advantage of this feature in the posting page to get added value from the relevance between the related “article series”. I have applied this method to one of my web clients and has a pretty good positive effect:

You might be confused what I mean by article series here. I like this example, I will make an article titled “5 tourist attractions in Bandung”, surely in the article I will discuss the five places such as “Tangkuban Perahu”, “White Crater”, “Strawberry Garden”, “Ciater” and “situ patenggang lake”. but on the other hand I also made content again about the five places that explained in detail the tourist attractions.

In general, what is usually done by webmasters will be to provide an internal link or Related Link to each of the tourist content in the content of “5 tourist attractions in Bandung” or can make SILO using categories or Page. In addition to these 2 ways we can make it into a content series (paginated content) by giving the Link Element “rel =” next “and” rel = prev “on the 6 content. So here I have 6 serial content:

5 tourist attractions in Bandung that must be visited (View All Page)
Nostalgic with history in Tangkuban Perahu.
Enjoy the exotic white crater
Pamper the eyes of the ciwidey strawberry garden
Relex and relax at the Sari Ater hot spring, Ciater
Enjoy the view on the boat at Situ Patenggang Lake

Now we try to apply the Link Element “rel = next” and “rel = prev” in the 6 content. Previously we first installed several plugins to make it easier:

Wp Head Cleaner (if your themes have a default “rel = next” and “rel = prev”)
Average Head & Footer Code
First, if your themes have a default feature that raises “rel = next” and “rel = prev” on every page / content, then you have to eliminate them first, because the link element is the same as “rel = canonical”, then there is no allowance 2 The exact same Link Element in 1 page. Next settings like this:

Next we just enter the Element link “rel = next” and “rel = prev” in the custom head & footer code box in every content of the 6 serial content that will be created (after installing the Average head & footer Code plugin):

It should be noted that for the first content, there is only the “rel = next” link because there is no previous content so there is no need to display “rel = prev”:

For the last content, there is only the “rel = prev” link because there is no further content so that “rel = next” does not need to appear:

But for content 2-5, we enter the link “rel = next” and “rel = prev” like this:

In order for you to better understand, I immediately demonstrated based on my example above for the content of “5 tourist attractions in Bandung”, I will discuss one by one how to include this Link Element in each of these content:

Easy to apply right? That way we have told Google that this is serial content (1 piece of content) but the 6 content will still be indexed in Google to anticipate if there are users who search on Google with the keyword “Tangkuban Perahu Tourism” or other. So the Web You still have content to display on Search Engines.

Keep in mind that Google does not guarantee that the use of this Link Element gives the effect of increasing position in search result, but it will give a strong effect of relevance between each serial content. And if we go back to the Algorithm that is concerned with relevance, this technique will help position your articles in the search results.

When should this method be used?
Well, the most frequently asked question for this technique is “does all the content have to be created / included in this link element?”. The answer is of course NO. Pagination was made by one of Google engineers to anticipate loading a page that was too long because it was too large in size (maybe because the content was too long and the image was too much). According to Maile Ohye (Google engineer), loading for all page views is no more than 4 seconds for good performance for users and search engines.

For that, if the homepage or view page is all like category and the tag is too long or too much content, then themes will usually use pagination and cutting with the “read more” link on the page to anticipate too heavy a page loading.

Like the example above, I use View All Page, which is in content 1: “5 Tourist Places in Bandung” which displays the 5 content in its depth with a brief description of each tourist spot. You might not use View All Page like the example above, but immediately discuss the name of the tourist course, if it is considered to display the view all page is too heavy loading.

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